A clustered cattle of strong, tall, brown, white and black. I saw it from a far but couldn't tell any of them apart. It appeared to me, to be, a huge chunk of aimlessly walking bodies.
Is there a Sheep in the cattle? I wouldn't know. You tell me. Were you a part of it? Are you still?
Discover yourself.
Take some time out for yourself and think. Rebuild faith in yourself. No God, and no self-help book, not your parents, or your friends, no one in the world can help you discover the Sheep. Except you. We let people take control over our minds and decide our big life decisions for us. We feel strong at first, and believe that it is impossible for us to be shaken by their determination to take decisions for us. This is what usually happens when we do not realize our own worth.
Every human being is a masterpiece. They need to discover themselves, find who they are outside of a "couple", a "family", a "friend circle", a "job", "a degree", "a society". These classifications alter the human mind into believing what each of these sects claim for them to believe.
And this belief, makes the internal self-belief disappear somewhere. Because no matter what you do, and where you go, you carry their beliefs with you. Our job here is to find that person who has disappeared in these troops. The strong cattle is keeping you from the outer world.
The escape isn't easy, but it isn't impossible. It's going to bring you some complexities, but it's going to help you discover yourself.
1) Spend time with yourself
Identify who you are when you are not around anyone. Do you love your own company? What do you think about? What do you want to change in the world? How can you change your own life? Spending time with your spiritual side will give you more insight than any of your "sources" can. When you spend time with people, you invest your trust in them. When you take yourself out on a spiritual spree, you invest trust in yourself.
2) Take Charge
Don't let anyone, and I mean ANYONE rule your mind. Take no bullshit. And set a clear goal in your head of what you want. If there's something you feel you should do, do it. Don't delay. Your life is a gift, and it only belongs to you. You might say your life is miserable, or your life is very interesting, either way you're right.
3) For the sake of yourself, stop procrastinating
You are never going to do it tomorrow. It needs to be done today. As cliched it might sound, it stands as a truth that Tomorrow never comes. It's not written in the "cards" for you. It's not your "destiny". Sitting back and fighting matches with yourself in your head about if it's going to work out or not, will kill time further. Buckle up. There's no time to think!
4) Get to work
How are you going to get back on the ground? Do you have a plan? If yes, great. If no, repeat from step 1.
5) Stop listening to others
They will never stop disheartening you, they will always feel "it's not meant for you", or "It's too tough for you", or "you don't deserve it."
Shut them up. It's your life. You're the one who is working, and know that no one can stop you from reaching your goal.
6) Have faith in yourself
If you have successfully cleared the first five steps, this one sounds fairly easy, but is the most difficult step. There will be times when you will fall, and things will go wrong, but you can't afford to give up. When you have faith, even the most difficult things in the world seem the easiest. Faith will bring back your lost passion and your will to set yourself apart from the rest.
You will bounce back much higher.
Keep the search on. I hope you discover yourself.
Is there a Sheep in the cattle? I wouldn't know. You tell me. Were you a part of it? Are you still?
Discover yourself.
Take some time out for yourself and think. Rebuild faith in yourself. No God, and no self-help book, not your parents, or your friends, no one in the world can help you discover the Sheep. Except you. We let people take control over our minds and decide our big life decisions for us. We feel strong at first, and believe that it is impossible for us to be shaken by their determination to take decisions for us. This is what usually happens when we do not realize our own worth.
Every human being is a masterpiece. They need to discover themselves, find who they are outside of a "couple", a "family", a "friend circle", a "job", "a degree", "a society". These classifications alter the human mind into believing what each of these sects claim for them to believe.
And this belief, makes the internal self-belief disappear somewhere. Because no matter what you do, and where you go, you carry their beliefs with you. Our job here is to find that person who has disappeared in these troops. The strong cattle is keeping you from the outer world.
The escape isn't easy, but it isn't impossible. It's going to bring you some complexities, but it's going to help you discover yourself.
1) Spend time with yourself
Identify who you are when you are not around anyone. Do you love your own company? What do you think about? What do you want to change in the world? How can you change your own life? Spending time with your spiritual side will give you more insight than any of your "sources" can. When you spend time with people, you invest your trust in them. When you take yourself out on a spiritual spree, you invest trust in yourself.
2) Take Charge
Don't let anyone, and I mean ANYONE rule your mind. Take no bullshit. And set a clear goal in your head of what you want. If there's something you feel you should do, do it. Don't delay. Your life is a gift, and it only belongs to you. You might say your life is miserable, or your life is very interesting, either way you're right.
3) For the sake of yourself, stop procrastinating
You are never going to do it tomorrow. It needs to be done today. As cliched it might sound, it stands as a truth that Tomorrow never comes. It's not written in the "cards" for you. It's not your "destiny". Sitting back and fighting matches with yourself in your head about if it's going to work out or not, will kill time further. Buckle up. There's no time to think!
4) Get to work
How are you going to get back on the ground? Do you have a plan? If yes, great. If no, repeat from step 1.
5) Stop listening to others
They will never stop disheartening you, they will always feel "it's not meant for you", or "It's too tough for you", or "you don't deserve it."
Shut them up. It's your life. You're the one who is working, and know that no one can stop you from reaching your goal.
6) Have faith in yourself
If you have successfully cleared the first five steps, this one sounds fairly easy, but is the most difficult step. There will be times when you will fall, and things will go wrong, but you can't afford to give up. When you have faith, even the most difficult things in the world seem the easiest. Faith will bring back your lost passion and your will to set yourself apart from the rest.
You will bounce back much higher.
Keep the search on. I hope you discover yourself.
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